Special needs
Folks who've followed me on Twitter for awhile (and not sure how else one would find this blog, really) will know I spend every spare second I can hanging out with my son, who turned nine a few weeks ago. I'd imagine all parents will say this, but he's quite something. He's smart and funny and imaginative and writes constantly, reads well above his grade level, and has a better memory than anyone else I know. He reminds me in turns of his mom, in his love of cats and taste in music, of my father, who forgot nothing ever and always seemed to have a smile on his face, and, sadly, of me, with a dreadful temper and no attention span to speak of. He is also on the autism spectrum with an ADHD diagnosis. It's amazing how awkward that discovery was--for quite a long time my wife and I made excuses. He was a little young for his age; he was undersocialized; he was cooped up all day and had trouble concentrating on things. But eventually it was inescapable--too many peopl